Monday, January 19, 2009

Madonna Sucks

Stinx has been really obsessed with the Wheels on the Bus videos lately. This is one of his favorites. Today when I was volunteering in the nursery at church, Dad was letting Stinx watch the video at home. When I came home Dad asked me which person Stinx thought was the Madonna cartoon. I said I didn't know and he said "Anti-Kels". Bahahahaha. Too funny. So I pointed to Madonna and asked Stinx who it was was and he said "Kels". This post is for you Anti-Kels.

Title of post is not meant to offend anyone. Let's just say it's an inside joke.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Rocker Mom

Does anyone else feel like the mom in Mothering Magazines latest issue and article about the Rocker Mom? I totally feel the same way as her. I know I don't look like a punk rocker anymore, but I know that I don't look like many of the other moms out there. The stretched ear lobes, wrist tattoo's, chuck taylor sneakers and the occasional shirt with a skull on it, stand out a bit in a crowd of mom's wearing conservative clothing. Sometimes I just feel like I don't "fit" in. Sometimes I hate that feeling. Sometimes I like that feeling. And most times, I simply don't care.
Stinx and I went swimming this past Wednesday during the Parent & Tot swim time. After our swim Stinx and I were eating our lunch at the tables beside the glass wall that over looks the pool. As we sat eating our oatmeal, I overheard some mom's at the table next to us.

"Did you see the mom with the wings tattoo on her back?"

My ears perked up a little when I realized this mom was talking about me. How often does a person get to overhear people gossiping about yourself? Clearly they didn't recognize me with my clothes on! haha. It seems the woman liked my tattoo. There was also a very heavily tattooed Mama in the pool as well that day and the conversation flowed into her tattoos. My ears dropped and I got distracted by Stinx... Until I heard the same Mom bring up my tattoo again. Seems she really liked it!

Like the Mother in the Mothering article, I hope to care less what other people think of me and my image, as long as I am being the Mother I need to be.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

The Thrill of the Hunt Challenge - 2

Part Two

I have decided that I need to try to save money more as well as help the environment. The perfect way to do this for me? Buy 2nd hand. As I explained earlier, I already do this, but I want to make it more extreme. ANY time I need something, I'd like to try and find it used first.

Now obviously I am going to exclude some items.. like food and underwear. But just to gross some of you out a little, I have totally bought a used bathing suit. It's this sweet pink and black retro bathing suit. It's rad and I'm not ashamed to say I have worn a 2nd hand bathing suit. Some of you have the ickies now don't you? Muhahaha. Anyway... For regular old house hold stuff and clothing, I want to try and find it used first. I already do this quite a bit by posting WANT adds on the local on-line sites like Kijiji. Half of the stuff I am looking for I find. For example, the potty. I posted specifically for the red bjorn potty with the removable bowl. Someone emailed me and told me they had it. I went to pick it up and the woman also gave me an awesome booster seat for free. That was a sweet deal. I got the exact potty I wanted in mint shape(lame note: the red potty matches the red bathroom) and paid half the price of a new one, and on top, got a nice booster seat.
So my point is that I want to post these adds as much as I can. And sometimes if I am looking for something specific and know a thrift store might have it, I'll check the local shops out. That's what I have been doing for the Eric Carle books. Every time I am near a thrift shop I'll check out the kids books. And what do you know? I have found several in awesome condition.

Right now Dad and I are looking for luggage. We've looked at quite a few that are brand new in store and I admit, there are some really nice ones I'd like to buy, but I also know that if I wait a few days, I might be able to find some decent ones 2nd hand. I have an add up and I hope that by tomorrow I might get some response. Of course if nothing looks decent we will of course buy new. I just think I need to give ourselves the chance to buy 2nd hand. So I am hoping to make this a habit that will save us some money in the long run.

I hope to keep myself accountable on the blog by sharing my wanted items and hopefully the successful hunt of finding them.

Friday, January 16, 2009

The Thrill of the Hunt Challenge - 1

Part One - History

Every time I drive by one of the local Salvation Army stores I see the sign that says, "Enjoy the thrill of the hunt". And that my dear friends, is what I do. Perhaps that is what I do best. Couldn't there be a career in professional thrift shopping? I would do well in that industry simply because I love the "hunt".

I don't know exactly when this passion started but it was certainly in my childhood. My first memories of adoring other peoples junk is that of garage sales. One memory in particular, takes place in a suburb in the SW, not sure which one, but somehow I recall it being in the SW, and I found a lovely rock family. It was a large grey stone the size of my fist, with many small painted stones glued on top. The small stones had faces painted on them. I was in love. I also clearly remember having to use the neighbor's bathroom because I couldn't "hold it". That was a nice random thought for you.

Other memories include the trips to the consignment store with my mom. I am not sure if that was something she did my whole childhood, but I remember going when I was in about grade 4. I thought consignment shops were so neat. I always picked out the weirdest clothes. Maybe I have always had bad taste. But I adored each and every unique item. I told my friends about these neat consignment stores and one friend even confided in me that her parents took her to Value Village. She told me I would love it. I brought this idea up to my mother but she was disgusted. Apparently Value Village lacked some sort of class which my mother must have required in a 2nd hand store.

In the 8th grade I decided I would like to wear my Dad's old plaid shirts. This was back in the Nirvana days of course. And I was also a little obsessed with wearing "Old Man Pants" (OMP). Those were my absolute favorite. Nothing like a pair of baggy baby blue polyester man pants with a big butt. So of course to find such things I went to Value Village. I was in heaven in such a store. I wondered why my mother had never taken us to this haven of bizarre clothing. I loved finding retro ring tee's, old striped ski sweaters, anything vintage, and of course the OMP. I often took the c-train there either by myself or with a friend. My mom did take me on occasion if I begged her well enough. That was always tough though. My mom and sister wouldn't even want to come in. It was like they would be embarrassed being seen in a store like that. My sister claimed many times that the store "stunk". Maybe it did, or maybe the smell has grown on me because I have never noticed.

By high school I was still a regular at the thrift stores. I loved finding old retro mugs. I started a collection. I loved bright colorful glass objects. I loved finding vintage materials. And still a fan of the OMP of course. My friends in high school also loved these thrift store adventures. We'd all pack on the c-train and try to find the precious gems upon arrival.

Shortly after I graduated high school, a Good Will store opened up just down the street from my house. As great as it was, I never actually found much there. Mind you, since having Stinx I have found some nice sleepers on occasion while visiting with Bugma. Anyways, I lived in Winnipeg for 4 months one summer while doing my practicum for school. When I looked Value Village up in the Winnipeg phone book I was in awe. They had something like 5 VV's. At that point Calgary only had 2 (now there are 3). And I actually made it a goal to see all 5 of them. Winnipeg's VV's were so awesome and they had many other thrift shops too. I found the greatest stuff there. I only lived there for 4 months but I had to do a purge by the end because I had collected soooo much stuff. And actually while living there I found this sweet pin in Osborne Village that read "Thrift Store Junkie". I wore it proudly, because I'm a nerd.

After moving back to Calgary Dad and I got hitched the following summer. Two of our friends, Dusty and Ace, were also thrift-shop-aholics. Ace and I came up with this amazing idea to go to ALL of the cities thrift stores in one day. We called it the "Thrift-Shop-A-Tron". It was a crazy idea. I looked up all of the thrift stores and got an idea of where they were in location. I figured we would have to go on a Saturday. Sadly this idea never panned out completely. However, Dusty and I did do a mini-version of the Thrift-Shop-A-Tron. We did something like 13 or 14 stores in one day. It was a blast.

Since being married I have still been a regular at the thrift stores, especially in the neighborhood we've been in for the past 5 years. There are tons of thrift shops around. There are some that specialize in furniture or kids clothes. I most often visit the Good Will simply because I live so close to it. I also try to go to the VV fairly regularly. I have found lots of great stuff for Stinx. Lots of great clothes, toys and my favorite thing to find for him, books. Dad isn't into it though. He never really has been though. I mean, when we first started dating he was sorta into it, but now, he's too much of a "suit" to like 2nd hand stuff, especially clothing.

It must be the thrill of the hunt that is so addicting. Because thrift shopping can be addictive. I actually find it very relaxing and peaceful. It's like my therapy. I admit though, since having Stinx I don't go as often. It used to be every few days but now, hmmm, I am not even sure how often I go. And that's good I suppose. The shelter I work for has their own little thrift shop - except that everything is free. It's a really great resource for the homeless or low income individuals. And, no, I have never taken advantage of it :P
Other than thrift shops I love going to auctions, garage sales and finding 2nd hand items on-line. Sites like http://www.kijiji.ca/ are very addictive for me. People are just constantly posting their stuff. I have found tons of great baby and toddler items on there. Some of which include, a bumbo, a rain forest jumperoo, his high chair, booster seat, his Bjorn potty, Stonz boots, cloth diapers, books, clothing. The list is endless actually. Some of that stuff I would have never bought him brand new. Because its second hand it is much more affordable.
So this brings me to my challenge....

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Date Night

Dad and I went on a lovely date last night to celebrate his birthday. Thanks to the in-laws, it was their idea, and offered to babysit. Dad and I first went to Jugo Juice, I know, kinda lame for a first-date-in-a-long-time, but it was good. We would have chosen a nice restaurant but Dad and I also really wanted to go to a 7pm movie. Dad wanted to go see Gran Torino. I had no idea what the movie was about. I feared it would be some awful action movie but instead it was a dramatic comedy. I found it pretty hilarious actually. An interesting story and I thought Clint Eastwood wasn't too shabby.
Looking forward to more dates in the future!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Stuck

I totally got stuck in the snow today. I got Stinx in the car and drove down the street to drop something off at S's mom's house. I got out and gave S some stuff. I got back in the car and tried to drive away. I backed up a few feet but then got totally stuck. I tried driving forward, then backwards, then forwards, and then I tried cranking the wheel all the way and pressing the gas. Nothing. I got out of the car and asked S to help me. Thank goodness my friend knows what she's doing! She was like "Did you try rocking it?"... I had never even heard of that. Hmmm. She got into the driver's side and told me to get into the passenger seat so I could see what she was doing. She summed "rocking" it as "going forward and then backwards very quickly, again and again until your out". And it totally worked. Had she not been there to help me my car would still be in front of her mom's place. Which isn't that bad I guess since it's only like 5-6 houses down the street.

But I did need to go to the mall since it is Dad's birthday today. I put off getting him a card until today. I know, I'm terrible. So after S freed me from the snow Stinx and I went to the mall and got Dad some cards and some popcorn. He loves popcorn. His parents are babysitting Stinx tonight and we are going for dinner, and maybe a movie. Whoo Hoo.

Saturday, January 10, 2009

I dig this quote

I found this quote the other day in a book I've been reading. I think its awesome and I'd like to put it up somewhere in the house.

"A sparkling house is a fine thing if the children aren't robbed of their luster in keeping it that way" - Marcelene Cox